Ways to turn a guy on
Get Behind and Get Ahead
Get Behind and Get Ahead
Stand behind him and stroke his penis. This positions your palm flat against his member’s sensitive underside, the same way he grips it when he masturbates. Then do a few things he can’t do himself, like gently lick his ear or kiss his back.
Get Naked, Too
Get Naked, Too
Seems only fair to join the party.
Make Him Lift You Up, Because You’ve Had a Hard Day
Make Him Lift You Up, Because You’ve Had a Hard Day
Have him hold you up against the wall with your legs wrapped around his lower back. Not only is this minimal work for you, but watching him work up a sweat while he does sex things to you is not the worst way to spend a Sunday.
Break Out the Blindfold
Break Out the Blindfold
It can drive someone crazy (in a very good way) not knowing where the next lick, kiss, or stoke will land. Strap one on him and see where the night goes.
Climb on Top
Climb on Top
The view from up high is always better.
Take a Shower
*ake a Shower
And nope, you don’t even have to try and bone in there. It’s slippery and honestly not that comfortable. But just being naked and soaked together can be v. steamy foreplay, literally.
Find His P-Spot
Find His P-Spot
A Guy’s prostate — the walnut-size gland under his bladder — is a vastly under utilised erogenous zone. Try resting two fingers against the swath of skin between his testicles and anus, and then full-on digital penetration once you’re both ready.
Fuck 69, Try 77
Fuck 69, Try 77
No doubt, you’re intimately acquainted with 69. And yes, it’s a straight-up garbage fire. Now try 77’ing. The number refers to the way you and your partner’s bodies look when they meld together in a side-entry position. The unique angling makes for an A+ penetration that goes *just* deep enough.
Think Outside the Bed
Think Outside the Bed
What to know why hotel sex is so good? Because you’re shaking up your boring routine. Steam things up sans travel by moving outside the bedroom and doing it on top of a sturdy table, kitchen counter, bathroom sink, or hood of a car that’s parked in your garage. No public sex though, keep that shit legal.
Have Him Dance For You
Have Him Dance For You
Turn on “Pony” and ask him to werk his best Channing impression. I’m sorry, but is there anything more hypnotising than the sight of a gyrating peen?
Turn Him into a Buffet
Turn Him into a Buffet
Know what doesn’t taste amazing? A penis. Know what tastes pretty fine? A penis with a little chocolate sauce on top.
Masturbate In Front of Him
Masturbate In Front of Him
He gets 20 seconds to watch before it’s time to help you.
Make Him Beg
Make Him Beg
Kiss and lick your way down his torso, stopping short of his penis, then stop. Go make yourself a sandwich or something. This is one to make up for the orgasm gap, and he can deal with it.
Give Him the Silent Treatment
Give Him the Silent Treatment
Tell him what you want him to do without saying a word. Wrap your hand around one of his fingers or penis, and when he does something you particularly like, give it a squeeze.
Ask Him to Do Some Yoga
Ask Him to Do Some Yoga
Then watch all his glorious angles as he streeeeetches.
Talk Dirty to Each Other
Talk Dirty to Each Other
You’re naked, so that’s a good base to start. Plus dirty talking is a great way to test out what turns you on before you actually do it.
Just Hang Out and Watch Some TV
Just Hang Out and Watch Some TV
Normalise nudity, ya’ll.
Institute a Hands-Off Policy
Institute a Hands-Off Policy
You can touch each other’s bodies with your lips, tongues, and breath instead.
Cook Dinner Together
Cook Dinner Together
A bonding activity that’s actually delicious. Just keep yourself away from any open flames until you’ve covered up!
Give Each Other Nude Massages
Give Each Other Nude Massages
Any old massage oil and some TLC will do the trick.
Provided Your Tub Is Clean, Get In It
Provided Your Tub Is Clean, Get In It
You can use bubbles to make funny moustaches, or rub up on each other. Fun wither way!!
Tie Him Up
Tie Him Up
Even a plain scarf can make the trick if you use the right technique. Take a long silk wrap, place it around his main man and the boys, and tie it in a large square knot, leaving about a foot of fabric on either end to hold on to. As you’re riding him, pull on the free ends so that the knot rubs against your clitoris.
Tell Him What You Really Think
Tell Him What You Really Think
Love how his biceps look when he’s naked? Great! Think his butt looks superb wandering around the house naked? Let him know. Hey, everyone loves a compliment.
Play Around With Temperature Changes
Play Around With Temperature Changes
An easy one to start with is the classic ice-cube trick. Have him lie on his back, hold a cube in your hand, and slowly draw and icy line from his neck all the way down his body.
Have Him Describe Exactly What He Wants
Have Him Describe Exactly What He Wants
Asking him a straight up question like “how do you want me to go down on you?” and then acting it out word for word (provided you’re on board) quickly turns fantasy into reality.
Use a Vibrator Togethe
Use a Vibrator Together
Ask him to buss it against your clitoris and tell him simply to sit back and watch you handle it.
Go for Round 2
Go for Round 2
If you’re craving another go, telling him as much could be a super unexpected turn on for him.
Have Him Climb on Top
Have Him Climb on Top
But you can make it better by drawing your knees toward your chest and grasping the back of your thighs. You can also place the soles of your feet on his chest if you’re feeling some deep penetration.
Play Rough
Play Rough
Talk about your boundaries, find out what he’s into, but once you’re both game, do your best Christian Grey impression on his ass.
Make It a Quickie
Make It a Quickie
OMG-gotta-have-it-now sex is soooo worth it.
